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Stop Arguing Now For A Happy Long-Lasting Relationship

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We all agree that arguments are a part of a healthy relationship. But you would be wrong in assuming that these arguments are a temporary blip in your relation. Hurtful words linger in the mind long (sometimes forever) after the tension has faded. Long lasting bonds thrive on a feeling of comfort and openness between partners. Respect each other's space and avoid unnecessary arguments.

Relationship arguments are taxing for everyone.

They take a toll on your marriage and on each person involved. Relationship arguments not only cause discord and tension that lasts for days but they also erode our ability to be open and vulnerable with our partner.

They can cause resentment and the inability of your partner to feel loving toward you.

Relationship Arguments Damage Trust And Love

When you have an argument, it can have long-lasting results. If you allow your anger to spill over onto your partner, you’re doing long-term damage to the relationship.

Long after the argument is over, the words spoken still hang in the air. They’re remembered by each person and can destroy another person’s ability to stay open and caring with their heart.

Our most loving interactions are with people we feel the safest with. When there’s trust, love grows and flourishes.

These are the people with whom we’re able to share our deepest secrets and love. If someone displays anger toward you, it can feel frightening and ultimately cause resentment.

In order to protect yourself and your feelings, you close down your emotions a little more each time. You no longer feel safe or comfortable being completely open with them.

Over time, if this happens enough, it begins to destroy the relationship.

Can A Relationship Be Argument-Free?

Is it even possible to have a relationship free from arguments?

But if you want a relationship or marriage that’s built on trust and love, then it’s important for the health of the relationship. Both partners need to decide it’s worth a try. Having a marriage or committed relationship with someone you love deeply is worth the effort.

But both partners need to feel this way. Even if your spouse doesn’t believe it’s possible, if they’re willing to consider it, then it’s a start in the right direction.

According to Fawn Weaver’s book, The Argument-Free Marriage, it is possible. Not only is it possible but it’s also doable.

Her book outlines a 28-day plan on how to achieve an argument-free marriage. She’s spent her career writing about couples, marriage, and how to have a deeply loving relationship.

If you truly want a loving marriage where you trust your heart and soul to your partner, I encourage you to explore having a marriage free from relationship arguments.

Sumi Jones
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I've been working in this field for over 12 yrs. I help people get fully in touch with who they are and to achieve their goals in life. I work with individuals who have an active interest in improving their lives and who take responsibility for their growth and happiness. I'm blessed to have intuitive guidance for my sessions which allows them to quickly move blocks, beliefs, or patterns which have kept people from being the best they can be. I'm grateful for all of the amazing clients I've had the privilege to work with over the years.

Sumi Jones
Expert

I've been working in this field for over 12 yrs. I help people get fully in touch with who they are and to achieve their goals in life. I work with individuals who have an active interest in improving their lives and who take responsibility for their growth and happiness. I'm blessed to have intuitive guidance for my sessions which allows them to quickly move blocks, beliefs, or patterns which have kept people from being the best they can be. I'm grateful for all of the amazing clients I've had the privilege to work with over the years.

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